hurt and confused
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my ex were 2gether for a year and 7 mnths, 6 of them he was away playing baseball. When he came back home he told me he loved me, but couldn't B w/ me. He needed more time 2 heal ( was caught kissing someone else B4 he left. Now it has been almost 4 months n we have been hangin talkn more often say i love you 2 eachother and tells me he doesnt want n e one else, we also sleep w/eachother. Truth is I'm hurting I know
he is leaving soon. I want 2 know where we stand, but everytime I ask he tells me he doesnt want 2 lose me, but he can't B in a relationship right now. What should i do i love him and i want 2 B w/ him. Should I keep waiting 4 him or just give up?
This choice is really up to you.
I have no useful advice except to think really hard about what you want from him and what you want out of a boyfriend.
If he fits the bill then keep him.
If he doesn't make the grade then let him go.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com