RE: am i in over my head?!?!

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hello i have recently asked you a question and this was your response

It's a little difficult how she feels.

She seems to like you a lot and even love you as a friend. That's why you get those loving feelings from her and why you get along so well.

But, she mas made it clear that she doesn't want a dating relationship with you because she is so busy AND she likes AJ. I don't think she was lying to you about being busy. And if she gets together with AJ, she will have very little time for him. Strangely, she will probably have more contact with you than him.

This is a rough time for you and I'm sorry about that.

i promise to stop this is my last question but i just need to know with what you said
do you think i should stop pursuing this and stop thinking about it and move on and date other girls? or do you think there is still hope that she may return my feelings and just wait it out? like you said, its difficult to know how she feels and i feel very confused because i just dont know how if she likes someone else she would talk to me more you know what i mean? what should i do???
thank you! Advice
She has put her cards on the table and it looks like you have the losing hand.

With AJ in the picture, it's going to take time away from you. You are already unhappy with your relationship with her.

It would be a good idea to start looking around for a new girlfriend.

Good luck! George

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