Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I had posted, a month or so ago.. Saying that I hung out with this girl, didn't know if she liked me or not.. She was laying on me and I had said I didn't know whether I should kiss her or not due to the fact I don't want to 'invade her privacy'. I got a responce saying kissing is part of the deal and to go for it.. On another note, I went to the movies with the girl of my dreams,(same girl from last post).. Half way through I am Legend, I pulled up the drink holder, and held her hand, and she sat there for like 30 minutes and then said she needed to go to the bathroom, she got back and we didn't hold hands anymore. I wanted to kiss her so bad, but she is a 6 month recovering drug adict now, she looks beautiful, and she is a strong independant girl. She isn't like other girls that will play with me, and show me they like me, I just can't tell if she likes me at all, and if she does like me I don't want to ruin our relationship because I love her so much by messing it up pulling a stunt like kissing her and I'd lose the love of my life if she stopped talking to me. When I'm around really attractive woman I only think of her.. I can't even think about being with another girl.
My question in shorter terms.. How do I make a move without ruining my only chance at love with this girl, when she's always busy, and when I do see her it's for short times in public places.. I've told her I like her a lot, and I just emailed her asking if she does have a place in her heart for me, (I know I shouldn't use emails for that but shes always too busy to do anything).
Thanks a lot George, please give me a helpful answer, I'm so confused and I don't know who else to ask.
You will know the answer when she answers your email.
If she says she has a place in her heart for you then you can tell her that you want very much to kiss her and ask her how she feels about that. If you do kiss, then start discussing things more in person.
Once she answers your email, please write in again and I'll see if I can offer any useful advice.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com