What do i do?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have met a really nice guy who we attend the same church. I even have spent a whole week with him and feel really close to him. Just recently, my ex-husband (who refuses to leave me alone) saw that this male was driving my vehicle and started causing problems. Now the guy does wants to only see me once a week and said that we were going to slow down on calling. Well he still calls me 3 times a day and still wants me to come by every day. Even though I don't go to his house I still talk to him. What do I do? Do I slow do or just continue in the same manner that I have been? I really like this guy and his daughters love me. I want to build a relationship but don't want to scare him off since he suggested that we slow down.
???WHAT DO I DO???
He calls you three times a day and asks you to come over every day.
Obviously he likes you and doesn't want to slow down.
The only thing that seems to have changed is that he and your ex ran across each other. Is this guy afraid of your ex?
So, let him call the shots for a while. It's better than scaring him off.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com