Do I still have a chance
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I WAS WITH MY EX BOYFRIEND FOR ALMOST 4 YEARS...WE HAVE HAD THE BEST MOMENTS TOGETHER..ALSO WE HAD OUR BAD ONES... THERE WAS A TIME IN MY LIFE WHERE WE WERE FIGHTING ALOT...I PICKED ON HIM ALOT AND I WAS ALWAYS NAGGING AND BITCHING AT HIM FOR THE DUMBEST REASON AND IT BECOME MORE OFTEN WHEN MY GRANDPA GOT SICK AND THERE WAS WAY MORE STRESS IN MY FAMILY AND I TOOK IT OUT ON HIM...2 MONTHS AGO HE SAID HES HAD IT WITH THE FIGHTING AND HE WANTED OUT, I HONESTLY DID NOT KNOW WHAT HAPPEN SINCE IT HAPPEN SO FAST...AS I SAT DOWN AND LOOKED BACK I DID DO SOME BAD THINGS TO HIM... HE TELLS ME HE STILL LOVES ME AND ALWAYS WILL LOVE ME BUT HE SAID HE LOST INTEREST IN THE RELATIONSHIP...HE SAID HE WISHES HE DID NOT FEEL THAT WAY BUT HE CANT HELP WHAT HE FEELS...HIS MIND WANTS TO BE WITH ME BUT HIS HEART DOESNT FEEL THE SAME...I KNOW LOVE CANT BE LOST THAT FAST...IN THE 2 MONTHS WE HAVE BEEN BROKEN UP I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE, DO YOU THINK I SHOULD BACK OFF SO HE COULD HAVE HIS SPACE AND MISS ME SINCE IVE BEEN THERE CONSTANTLY TRYING TO WIN HIM BACK?? HE TELLS ME IF ITS MEANT TO BE IT WILL BE BUT WHEN HE LOOKS AT ME AND WE HANG OUT I SEE LOVE IN HIS EYES AND I DONT WANT TO LOSE HIM...I ADMIT TO MY MISTAKE AND HOW BAD I WAS THAT IVE REALIZED THAT I WANT HIM IN MY LIFE BUT I DONT WANT TO PUSH HIM AWAY...PLEASE HELP ME
You went through a stressful time and didn't relate very well with him.
He finally gave up on the relationship. You need to give him space to think about the situation. Let him know what you are doing and let him know you still love him and want to be with him. Then give him the space you promised him. If it is meant to be he will be back soon enough.
Meanwhile, spend time on yourself. Build up yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, socially, and spiritually. You will feel better about yourself and he will notice the difference.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com