asking her out

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
ok me and this girl have been good friends every since school started this year. and i have feelings for her but i dont know how to ask her out and if she says no i dont want to make our friendship akward Advice
The first step is to let her know you are attracted to her.

Do this gently by saying something like you are "developing feelings" for her.

This will give her a chance to say she is too. That means it is ok to ask her out. If she says she likes you as a friend, then back off and just continue being friends. It shouldn't be awkward because you didn't say too much.

Good luck! George

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