what do i do about being friends but i want her as a gf ?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
me and this girl have been friends for 4 yrs. we have dated off and on but throw it all we have been very very close friends our longest was our last we dated for 40 days the day we broke up she said that i was smothering her of course i was her best friend was telling me the hole time she was going to break up with me...
my ? is how do i get her back its been 2 months since we have dated we r closer now than we ever have been but she said she just wants to be friends what should i do?
You are lucky to be her best friend. Now you can take advantage of that to show her how good you can be.
It's not easy to change yourself all at once, but we all can improve ourselves a bit. Work on the following and she will be more attracted to you:
Intellectual-- read a book, know the news (Iraq, Presidental race, global warming), get good grades;
Physical-- dress well, groom yourself (hair, teeth, deoderant), get active (pump a little iron, join a sport, exercise);
Emotional-- share feelings, share information, be affectionate (hugs, teasing),
get your emotions under reasonable control;
Ethical-- be honest, trustworthy, respectful, sincere, etc.
Social-- be close to her family, invite her to your house, hang out with her and friends, join a club.
Do even half of these and you will impress her a lot. And, you will feel better about yourself and that is very attractive itself.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com