What's his deal?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am in a long distance relationship and at times it is very challenging. My boyfriend is the nicest, sweetest, most respectful, careing guy that I've ever met. He means the world to me but sometimes things aren't good with us. We never get to see each other :( I try to talk to him everyday but sometimes I get no response. I want to talk to him everyday and I want things to be ok with us but it's not always like that. I try to be the best girlfriend that I can be and at the same time I'm trying to be myself. But here lately it's like he doesn't care as much as he use to. We use to talk quite a few times each day. But now we do good to talk once a day and some days we don't talk at all :( Is he just not in to me anymore? Do you think he has found someone else? Is he just not happy with me anymore?
This is something you need to discuss with him.
What you suggested is very possible and talking with him will help you two sort it all out. Don't be afraid of the unknown... this is how you get to the truth. And the truth is what you really need right now.
Go into this gently with love.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com