I feel like there is nothing I can do
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I met this girl in the 5th grade. She was new at our school, and she was truly amazing. she and I became great friends. After about a year, I started liking her more and more. so, one day I told her that i liked her, and she seemed very happy when i told her, but she had a boyfriend, so i didn't ask her out. All of my friends think she is perfect for me. She used to like me. Until the end of that year. She thinks I am a stalker. I admit that i have done many things that might bring the wrong idea, but i still think she is overreacting. i accidentally memorized her address. i got a few pictures of her without her wanting to give me any. i took a video of homecoming, and the camera was held on her the whole time. She found these things out from a few of my friends that i trusted. I thought it couldnt get any worse. Then, this past october, she decided to take it to the next level. she changed classes since she was in mine. I was sent to the principal's office for harassment. and she made her family hate me. She broke my heart so many times, and I lay i bed every night thinking of how i had a chance, and i never asked her out. I truly love this girl. I would do anything for her. Honestly, no matter what she does to me, none of my feelings for her will ever change. I haven't talked to her in 2 months. I really want another chance, But i have no idea how to do it. i have no idea how to get her to be my best friend again.
You might as well stop trying.
Nothing you do is going to convince her that you can come back into her life.
Find another girl and this time don't obsess over her. There are hundreds of girls with no boyfriends and no dates. Give them a chance.
Sorry for the bad news.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com