So theres this cashier.....
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ill start off by saying I am 17, going to be 18 in 5 months. Im mature for my age, so i tend to like older guys. There is this chashier at the store down the road who is 21 going to be 22 in a few months. I go to the store all the time, and when I do, I will go into his line if hes there. I actually look for reasons to go into the store to see if hes there. I talk to him, he talks and smiles back at me. He stares at me, like into my eyes for what seems like a bit, then looks away. Hes very soft spoken and quiet around me.
There are certain moments that makes me wonder if hes maybe into me. One time I was in the store, he wasnt working, but he was in the store, spotted me, and stopped and talked. Told him I was working the next day and he said hed come in, which he did. He just seems genuinely happy to see me, and smiley.
I know a guy that works with him who can give me some of the 411 on him. Hes the one who told me he was single, a nice guy, and all that stuff.
My question really is, how can I know for sure if he is being nice, or into me? What do I do? Do i play it cool, or step up the flirting. I mean, ive never hung out with him outside of this, and this really is the only interaction weve ever had. I dont know for sure If he knows my age. I want to get to know him better. I want to exchange numbers, or emails or something, so at least I can get to know him better, and at least be good friends.
You don't know him well enough to decide whether he is into you or not.
It wouldn't hurt to increase the flirting a bit and also trade numbers or emails with him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com