just some help
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
thanks in advance for the help .... so im talkin to this same guy and i havent been talking to him as much i dont no really what he has been doing but he has let me no he is stuck because of problems in his life and that he has lost his licence ...he tells me he is striving for us to b able to c eachother and we have both said we are not going after anyone but eachother i asked him to just do what he can to show me he cares as much as he cana nd he told me he promised he would and i also said i can't just sit around and wait he has to tell me whats up no matter what .he said he would and if it were me he would wait for me anytime .. but i feel so distant from him liek i dont really no whats going on with him i no theres no other girls but im just really confused because i wont talk to him for days and i feel like i have no clue whats going on in his life... i want to believe and trust but i dont no if im just waiting for nothing if he is just saying this to me .. i dont no why he would because i dont no what he would get from it but im just really confused with it all and dont no how i should act towards this situation ??and how to be whenn i do talk to him?? ... its just weird to me because he trieddd so hard to get me to say yes and want to be with him but its liek now that i do it doesnt seem liek he cares as mch and i did say like now it seems you dont have the time and he was like i do ido i dont give up like that liek you when i tried to tell him to leave it before .so i dont no should i just wait it out and see what happens ... any advice??? and like i dont want to tell him he has to do anything like contact me eeryday or anything i just told him to try to talk to me as much as he can and most of this talking is over internet ..
You don't talk to him for days and have no clue what's going on in his life.
That is the basic problem.
The way to solve it is to tell him that he must contact you every day even if it is just for a short hello.
I know you don't want to tell him that, but that's what you have to do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com