Help Me Please!!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok well i was dating this guy for 1 year and 6 months and he proposed after 5 months and then we decided to have a baby and i only agreed if we would be together forever! But just recently he broke up with me and went for this fat ugly chick that has a baby already! and he told me that he loves me still and he always will and he just dont feel the same anymore! He keeps talking to me on the internet and i really cant do that i cry everytime i talk to him and i cant look at him when i see him!
Will he come back to me? How do i get him back? What should i say to him? How should i do this? Please Give me all the info i need!
I don't know if he will come back to you. Only the future can tell.
What you can do to try to get him back are some of the following things. Instead of crying work on being happy. He will be attracted more if you are. Of course this isn't easy to do, but try things like listening to your favorite music, exercising, praying (if you are religious), talking to friends, writing a diary, going to parties or movies, or whatever else you think of.
Since you only broke up recently, you have to give it time for your hurting to stop. You went out for a long time. Once he sees that you are recovering, he will be more interested in you. Since he still loves you, it is very likely that he may return to you once he gets tired of the other woman.
Other things to do are: dress well, groom yourself (hair etc), walk tall, smile when you can, know a little about what is going on in the news, etc.
Not only will you be more attractive, but you will feel better about yourself.
Make sure he knows that you still love him and do so frequently. Ask him how he is doing (this will get him thinking about how maybe his life could be better with you.) Tell him about the interesting things you are doing so he thinks of you positively. Ask about his family, friends, plans so he knows that you are thinking about things besides your relationship.
I hope some of this helps! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
Visitor Submitted Responses
Our RomanceClass visitors have chimed in with thoughts on this question and answer. Click on a link below to read what their solutions are!