Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi,My name is Diamond and im 15 bout to turn 16 in january and im really confussed. I been questioning my sexuality lately i just dont know if im Straight or Bi. I been haveing these dreams of me and other girls... but i cant rap my head around it i think i like guys but im not really boycrazy, i dont know if i really like girls in that way. when i go to sleep i seem to dream about cute boys but some how these girl shows up and things happen.
First of all, don't put a lot of weight on dreams and analyzing them. Leave that up to psychiatrists and psychologists.
Dreams can, however, help you think about things. Right now you are trying figure out whether you are straight or bi. While you are trying to make sense of this crazy life you will naturally look at boys and girls and compare them and compare yourself to them. As you do this, gradually you will determine your sexuality.
Accept yourself however it turns out. You are very important.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com