my ex is playing mind games? yes or no?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my ex have been going out for a year. and ever since she broke up with me, it was sudden, out of the blue. she was planning to leave without even an explanation. the main cause she brought up was she doesn't know. i asked her questions on how she feels and they were positive, and then the next day they were negative and apparently she got over me in 4 days. she was mean and wouldn't even let me speak or ask her a question.
so now its been a month since the breakup. and i havn't been talking to her for a solid week and out of the blue she talks to me, but i ignored her, but then finally wondered what she wanted. she was showing interest like she actually cared if i was interested in someone other than her. she wouldn't give me a clear explanation. a day later i decided to write a blog saying "i wonder if she thinks about me" she replied "i wonder if ur thinking the same thing, i wonder if u think back all the time, i hate this" then i tried to iniciate a conversation and she blogged "don't be afraid to let me know..(and called me a pet name)." then after that when i confronted her about it she told me she didn't know if she meant it or not. so i just told her to leave me alone and she seemed fine with it, whats going on?
It doesn't sound like either one of you is dedicated to the old relationship.
She is wishy washy and you are disappointed but don't seem to care too much what happens. This is why you told her to leave you alone.
So since neither of you seem to care much, why not let the relationship go?
Yes it does seem like she is playing mind games.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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