he doesn't like her
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
well, one of my friends and my boyfriend don't like each other for numerous reasons, okay they hate each other. She almost broke me and him up! She let's me spend time with him, but gets mad if I spend more time with him then with her, only I have to cuz I don't see him as much as I see her. I feel guilty when I leave with her. I don't want to it's just I hate when she's mad at me. But I really love him, I think I'd probly choose him over her but she's still my friend and I love her to peices I just don't think it's enough anymore, he shows that I'm more important than their fights. She doesn't, help!!!
Your question is not easy to answer.
It's not unusual for someone to be caught in the middle between their BF/GF and their friends. Very often it is the source of disagreements when one person or the other accuses the friend of being too time-consuming or, worse, a bad influence.
You will have to perform a balancing act and try to keep them both happy. The only other thing to do is to drop one or the other of them.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com