Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There is this Girl Merry (made up name). She is LIKE my best friend. She invites me to her house and wants me to almost do everything we her. The problem is that she has a Boyfriend already. Im happy for them and stuff. So she invited me to her house the other day, i was SUPER aroused for her invitation. Her mom and her greeted me politely, as always hugging me. i stayed there for 2 hrs. watching movies and what not. But then her Boyfriend came over. I was devastated when i saw how he was touching her, and how they were cuddling on the Couch. I completely felt down in the dumps. So mr. advice guy/girl... I need opinion. Should i just be friends with her and feel gloomy when she is with her bf. Or just try to get it over with by building up resistance against the "ATTACK"?
Time to build up resistance.
You are lucky to have such a good friend. Don't give that up unless things become unbearable. It's natural to feel gloomy, but you can overcome it with some effort.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com