should i be upset?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i really like this boy and he told me he likes me too. we have been seeing eachother for about a month now and he doesn't want to be in a relationship... but he likes me. recently he was caught with another girl and that made me really upset he told me he was sorry about the whole situation and we are still together but not in a relationship. what should i do i don't trust him because he is a flirt. i know we are not together but i just want to know how i can show him that he is hurting me by being a flirt with other girls infront of me. even though we are not in a relationship we are still involved intimately. how do i tell him it bothers me when he flirts without pushing him away? Advice
Ask him "Would you be jealous if I flirted with other guys right in front of you?"

This will give him the idea that he is doing something hurtful to you. Maybe, and hopefully, he will think about it and eliminate or reduce his harmful behavior.

But, before you can expect him to change, you must let him know that his actions are bothering you. Yes, you should be upset.

Good luck! George

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