will he come back...again??Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
well basically our relationship has always been rocky!!
we got together feb 2005 and got on great but he had come out of a 4yr relationship the may 2004 and i think he wasnt over her as they spoke weekly and i didnt like this. Then he broke up with me in the sept 05 for being jealous of his ex. we lost contact for a while but then i txt him happy bday and we got chatting in the nov that year and met up a few times.
it wasnt until june 2006 that he told me he wanted to try again. i still loved him so i said ok and again everything was great until the end of the year wehn he got a new job and didnt have any time for me and then broke up with me just before xmas as he said it wasnt fair on me and that he wasnt prepared to make the time!!
then when i left him alone he started calling agin and asked to meet up, we did and sam eachother for about a week then he phoned and said he didnt think he could ever be in love with me again.
then two weeks later he txt saying he'd made a mistake, surprised with a trip to dublin for my bday and i was putty in his hands.
its been a bit rocky this year as his friend tried it on with me and in a row i told him and that made things a bit difficult but then a week ago we went on holiday and it was amazing, we had a great time, he kept telling me how much he loved me and no sooner than a week later he phoned me up and said he loved me but not enough to be with me as he was unhappy in our relationship and has now cut all ties and even deleted me as a friend on facebook!!
Im really confused, i didnt see this coming at all, after holiday it all seemed different, do you think he is just doing waht he usually does??
I suffer from low self esteem which makes me tend to get jealous and i know he hates that about me but i told him im going to see a counsellor to sort it out for myself but he doesnt want anything to do with me
He is taking advantage of your low self esteem to yank you around with his on again off again romancing.
He seems to think that he can dump you any time he wants and then snap his fingers and you will come running back to him.
You should go to a counsellor and get some help with your esteem issue and hopefully once you are done you will no longer crave his attention.
Good luck! George
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