Did I cheat or not?Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
First a little background My girlfriend and I have dated 4 1/2 years. Alot of good times, but also some pretty rough roads, mostly my fault. She is a wonderful mother of two and I am a divorced man with no kids.
I know there are always three sides to the argument, his side, her side and the truth. Anyway here goes.
After my girlfriend had told me to go away locked the door and not spoken to me, returned a call or txt msg for a week. I went to our camper at the lake to hang out with friends ( i had been at home alone all week by myself). They picked me up and we all rode to see a friend's band at a local bar. I talked to a girl I did not know, my group invited her and her friends to hang out after the bar closed, but only she accepted. We get back to my camper have a drink and everybody left except for this girl. I got really weirded out thinking about what would happen or what she was expecting. Only thing good was she was very drunk, sick and passed out. I finally got her up about 30-45 minutes later approx. I got her in my truck, took her back to the place she said was home, then drove straight back to my home (70 miles away) crying and head booming the whole time. I did not have sex of any type with this girl, although I admit her being there was wrong.I did tell my girlfriend about the whole ordeal but she does not trust that 's all that happened and caught me in a few lies trying to protect her.
I have no way to prove to my girlfriend that nothing happened sexual with this girl and my girlfriend insists I'm lying. Did I cheat by having here in my camper and how can I prove that I'm telling the truth.
Tell her that one thing is obvious. If you had done something with the girl then you would have stayed up at the camper and slept it off with or without the girl. You wouldn't have driven 70 miles home and tell your GF about it.
Show her your email to me and my reply and she may decide to trust you after all.
Good luck! George
p.s. no you didn't cheat. You just did something dumb.
-- from George
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