she is dating someone now so why did she email my son two or three times a week
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
My ex and i lived togther for eight years and i thought everthing was fine till one day she left after we got into a argument and she left so we talked and i still did not understand what was wrong we both still loved each other or at least i do she said she did we tried to make things work and it seems to me her family did not want that so we stopped talkin and i let her go and now that i have found someone she is asking my son things about me and yes i still love her and wish we could be togther i want her to be happy and i don't know if she wants me back or not we both have kids that i love with all my heart i think of her kids as my kids is this just wishfull thinking on my part or what i don't know and it is driving me crazy i just told my new girlfriend about this and she got upset and i know in my heart who i want in my life and she knows i still love my ex i can't stop thinking about her and her kids any help would be appreciated i have not told my ex about my feelings about her because i don't want to hurt her anymore then what she is if she is hurting i just don't know thanks
My advice is to tell her the truth about your feelings for her.
Who knows, she may feel the same. Did you two ever talk about marriage? It seems that after eight years and kids that would be a priority for you.
Also tell her how you feel about her kids and that it is hurting you to be separated from them also.
Whatever you do is better than keeping this a secret.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com