he is breaking my heart
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
John and I have only been married for 3 years. We dated for about 1 year first. During that 1 year he couldnt get enough of me, now he just doesnt want me. He is a good man, honest etc. He is 35 and I am 32. Other men find me attractive, but he doesnt seem to. He says he does, but I am so lonely and cry a lot when he is gone because of the lack of intamacy and how it makes me feel. He has recently been dx with sleep apnea, and thinks that is the reason. He wakes up with a hard on, so I know he wants it! I dont know what to do, I have talked to him a lot about this, and he says its not me its him. Im hurting and lonely. C
This is a perfect case for a licensed marriage counselor.
This person could help you two figure out what is going on.
I can't do much good in an advice column.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com