What is up with him?!!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I guess this could be a question of whether someone likes me or not, but I think that it is deeper than a general like. I would like some advice and then you can decide:
A guy that I used to date for years, cheated on me last year and got the girl pregnant. Well a couple of months back, I found out from a mutual friend that he was married (she wasn't supposed to tell me), so upon hearing that news, I told him never to email me anymore (of course out of respect for his wife). Well now, my sibling is telling me that he is always asking about me and that he is furious that I won't speak to him. He even apologized to my sister for what he did. (He claims he only married the girl for the baby-yeah right!) He tells my sibling things that he knows she will come back and tell me. (ex: "Since ur sister doesn't want to talk to me or email me, let her know that I asked about her", "How's so-and-so doing?", etc). The funny thing is, that he's asking me when am I going to be finished with college (of course he already knows this too since we dated for years). I have already informed my sibling not to tell me any updates on my ex's situation. My question is, what is his problem? Does he still have feelings for me, or does he just want to be controlling and see what's going on in my life? I need some advice!!
He probably still has feelings for you AND is being controlling.
It was good for you to tell your sister not to be a go between anymore... it is causing trouble for you.
He made his choice and should be working hard at making that work and not be bothering you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com