To believe or not to believe
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've been sortof seeing this guy for about 2 1/2 month. The problem is i never see him. We have schedules that aren't very compatible. This upsets me b/c i want to spend time spend time with him to see if we would work, but i haven't been able to do that. Even when we both have time to spend together rather he's too busy with something else or he asks me too late and i already have plans. And at points i have even felt like he has been making excuses so as not to spend time with me. Like waiting until he knows i have plans to ask me to do something and then saying "oh well i was gonna ask you to ect ect" I talked with him about this and he told me he wanted to get to know me more and that he hates that we don't have more time. But then on days when we could could get together, he conveniently doesn't get my phone calls or texts. I don't know what to do. I feel like my chain is being yanked. I don't want to be pessimistic but He's saying one thing but his actions aren't going along with what he's saying. Or maybe i'm just too attached to someone i'm not in a relationship with. At this point i'm so frustrated i don't know what to do. Should i just cut away from him and move on to someone who can fit me into his life or should I just back off and wait it out and see what happens?
Back off and see what happens.
If he doesn't contact you in a productive way then you will reach a point where you will cut away from him. You seem to be close to that point, so
give it a week or so before you make up your mind.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com