what should i do next?Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I recently approached a younger man in his mid 30's(at my gym) and told him that he was very good looking and I thanked him for giving me something good to look at all summer. He reacted by smiling and stated that I was embarrassing him. I replied that I had not seen him smile before, and that he was even more attractive when he did so. He thanked me and we parted. Now when I see him at the club he acts as though he is embarrassed to look at me. Should I just drop it and see if he approaches me, or did I come on too strong? Part of me wants to apologize for making him uncomfortable, but I am not sorry that I approached him. I had NEVER done that before and I surprised myself for having the nerve to approach him at all!
Congratulations of having the nerve to approach him.
I hope you exchanged names so that you can call out and say "Hi, John how is it going?" If not approach him again and share names. Then you can build a relationship. Even if it goes nowhere, it will be good practice.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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