Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
theres dis girl tht realli caught my eye at my job place, but theres details & stuf tht wrrys me & confuses me in if i should b feelin like dis, 1 idk her age, she looks bout my age 18 19 maybe, but most ppl there r ova 20 so im not sure. also we're both pretty shy, i evenually can open up but shes realli shy, she been wrkin alot longer there & doesnt tlk 2 much but 1 or 2 other ppl realli. we do tlk but there like 5 wrd conversaation like when i brong my guitar she would b the onli 1 2 recognize the music i play. well im askin advice in wat i should do in gettin closr, cauz i dont wanna get 2 close if its nuthin & well im not wat excate 2 do thnxs in advance
Don't try to do too much too fast.
She is shy and might be scared off. Instead do subtle things like saying hi with her name and give her a big smile. Do this a few times a day and she will start to notice you more.
Find out more about her like where she lives and tell her where you live. See if you have any common interests (like guitar) and if you do ask her out once you know her better.
Compliment her hair or dress and see if she likes it. If she does, do it more.
Dress nice, take care of your appearance and tell her about the interesting things you do and maybe she will want to do them with you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com