having trouble reading her signals
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
she's a friend i've liked for a while and there has always some attraction but no real physical contact we would never hold hand or share the same drink anyway her behaviour around me has changed for example the first thing she said to me was you look good with a big smile and touched my hand she never complimented me on my looks before when we went to a party last week she stuck with me for most of the night when i got us drinks she asked to taste mine knowing that we had the same thing she looped her fingers through mine and held my hand for most of the night she also caressed my palms and when she stood next to me she leaned so her hips almost touched mine and while i was having a conversation with a friend she asked to give me five but didn't let go of my hand and kept saying my name and when i paused the conversation too look at her she just smiled she mirrors my body language and i catch her staring she also follows me with hers when i left the room she was also impressed with my guitar playing and mentioned that she played a little and asked to come over sometime i have no clue what to do and this is why she is involved with another guy but she never brings him anywhere and hardly even mentions him
I care about her alot and I know you guys can't give me a definitive answer but i need the advice should i tell her how i feel on the off chance she might have some romantic feelings for me
She shows every sign of liking you.
Tell her you are "developing feelings" for her and ask how she feels.
If she feels the same, then ask what's the story with her BF. If she has one then let her know that as long as she has a bf you can't be her bf too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com