I want him back so bad...
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
A year and some change ago i met a guy on a hotline. Theguy is now my ex. Anyway we met and after a few months we started a relationship with each other. He stays fours away from me. We were in a long-distance relationship for a year. Anyway when we was together he got another female pregnant. I was hurt and crushed but still I stood by his side not know wether or not to trust him but hey I loved him, so I stayed with him. A few months ago I broke up with him because I couldn't take it anymore. Now him and her living together with the baby. He says he is there for the baby. I don't believe him but i still love him. Should I just leave him alone?
Yes, you should leave him alone.
I see from your earlier correspondence that you were able to eventually drop a guy you loved. You can do it again and with more reason this time. He lives with another woman and their child. That is not something you should break up.
Think of yourself being in her situation... all of a sudden her child's father is taken away from her by another woman. How would you feel? Pretty rotton, I imagine. Don't take that guilt upon yourself especially since you know it is wrong and it would hurt you even more. And the kid would be part of your life forever and making you guilty all the time.
Why not look for someone better. You seem attractive to guys, so use it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com