My GF always want to leave me

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Dear sir/madam,
I know this girl since last 2 years. in start we were good but she always used to say i have few ways she dont like. i said i will improve and i am trying hard. since we have knows to be with each other for last 2 years she always infront of every one says i am her friend not her BF. we have slept togather and she blames me that i am only with her for her body but i love her and i asked her to marry me but she says i cant improve her life she says she will only marry the person who will improve her life. i am student and doing part time job. she lives in another town and me another still i travel and she started a project i made that project successful when ever she needs me she be nice and other wise she says i have made her life miserable. i am afriad of talking to her or even sharing my veiws.she is very short temper. i love her and she insults me all the time for every thing and says i am from low class family and i am with her because i want to improve my standard but i really love and how much she insults i say i love u she says she have no value of love in her life. what should i do please help me. Advice
The logical and sensible thing to do would be to leave her behind.

She treats you like dirt and is very unloving.

But you don't want to hear that because you love her. My advice is to continue to pursue her and improve yourself. Dress well, take care of your hair, teeth, breath, body odor, etc. Stay in fit condition by eating well and exercizing. Stay knowledgable by reading newspapers and journals. Have interesting conversation and be affectionate (smiles, laughs, compliments, hugs, etc.)

Some of these things may please her. Listen to her complaints about you and try to address them if possible.

Good luck! George

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