Does he really mean it?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been seeing this guy for almost 3 weeks now. Everytime we hang out, he would always tell me how beautiful and sweet I am.. then he would tell me that he likes me a lot. We both are always excited to see each other. I find him really good looking too and he knows that. But I'm scared to tell him that maybe I like him too. He and his ex broke up 4 months ago, while my ex and I broke up 3 months ago. I remember him telling our friends that he's not really interested or looking for anyone right now. And then I hear him telling me he likes me a lot? It's been almost a month since I've moved out of town, therefore we no longer hang out. We've only talked 4 times online. He said that he misses me and I said the same thing too. But we never really had a "formal talk" of what's going on between us. I've always thought that maybe it's just a fling kinda thing..
I agree with you that it is probably a "fling kinda thing."
You've only known him for four weeks, then you moved out of town and only talked with him about four times.
My advice is to explain to him that it just isn't going to work out. That way you won't get a crush on him and feel bad.
It will work out better for everyone.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com