I don't know what to do
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
It's me and the Autistic girl again
This is the 3rd time I've asked for your help with her in 9 months
I've been in love with this girl ever since I met her on the school bus 9 months ago
I've told her how I feel
I seriously can't stop thinking about her. I even dream about her now.
But... I still have not heard her voice and its not just me she doesn't talk to. She talks to her mom and sometimes teachers.
I talk to her mom about her. her mom thinks I'm a nice guy.
Her mom said she talks about me.
I've invited her to my birthday party and her mom said she will try and get her to come.
I am her only friend
I won't give up so please don't make that an option
My best friend told me to give up on her and I haven't seen or heard from my best friend for awhile after what I did
There is a million more things I have done but I don't want this to be too big
What do you think is going on?
What should I do?
Hopefully she will come to your birthday party, but it would be quite a strain on her to have to deal with people in an insecure situation. She has enough trouble trying to deal with normal everyday things.
Try to communicate with her mother more often and see what insights you can find into the girl's thinking process. Offer to come over once a week to hang out for a few hours.
If you haven't done so already, google AUTISM and see if you can find anything that might be a clue to you two getting closer.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com