tryed everything

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i want my ex boyfriend back but after a almost three year relationship.he broke it off.not sure why.....he only contacts me if he wants to hook up...i did that for 7 months and there hoping it would bring us back i finally cut him off...i thought maybe he would miss what we had...but he liked having his cake and eating it to...he joined myspace and dates alot and is doing alot of fun things got a motorcycle and is so full of himself..i told him good luck..and he said the same to iam going to try and leave him alone..i read all the books and i even tryed giving him his space....turned out he likes being a single guy no commitment....i give up....but i would do anything to get him back i still love him...met a few guys but what we had i dont see in these other men..i wish he wanted me as much as i want him back....besides no contact what else can i do..wait it out see what happens... Advice
Tell him you miss the good times you had and say that you want to hang out once a week just for fun.

Then be a good friend to him: communicate interesting info, share feelings, and be affectionate (hugs, smiles, laughs, compliments, etc). Make yourself physically attractive by good grooming, dressing well, good hygiene, read a book or the newspaper, get fit, etc.

Good luck! George

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