soo what now????

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hey again. ive written to you a while before. about the same guy. i went to watch the band and i can say i still have a thing for him.he kept looking at me and came close to me bt didnt say anything and neither did i. i know how to go about talking to him and definitely how to flirt with him now. lately another prob has arisen. i got grounded for doin something and now i cnt join the band to see him . he's not a phn person / is he a comp person i can tell. his prob is he's used to getting what he wants (particularly with girls and their desire to hav him)and i dont wan to b just a girl to him. by the way he is very cute. im nt attached as i still am open to many other guys and flirt openly with them bt i am interested in him. righ now my situation to me seems hopeless and i think i should forge about it bt in a way i cnt. so do u think its worth a fight and how should i gt closer to him? Advice
One thing you can do is wait until you are ungrounded and then join the band.

Meanwhile, take every opportunity you get to talk with him and flirt with him. Although, you never know, he may prefer a girl who isn't chasing him. You'll have to decide that for yourself.

Talk with him on the computer, that's pretty safe. You have an uphill fight trying to get such an attractive fellow, but think of the reward if you win.

Good luck! George

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