What does she want?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hey, well me and this girl just started going out just last week, and everything was going well we hung out at her house saturday watching tv, cuddling, and kissing, then after that day it seemed like it went down hill, because her and her ex still talk and she wants to move on but she still has thoughts about being with him because he was her first, and like she says we can still hang out and cuddle but not kiss or things like that because it will confuse her, she has told me before that she still does like me and that she never said no about us going back out again, she was just not ready for a relationship, and she's the one that asked me out, so please tell me does she still like me or was it something short lived?
She still has feelings for her ex so she isn't ready for a relationship now.
Take advantage of the hanging out and cuddling to let her gradually get used to the idea of you as a boyfriend. It probably won't take long. Communicate with her, share feelings with her, and be affectionate (hugging, cuddling, smiling, laughing) and she will grow closer to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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