Choosing between an Ex and a New Guy

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am having trouble choosing between my x-boyfriend and this new guy that I have just met. I still love my x-boyfriend what should I do?

I don't know how to tell my x-boyfriend about the other guy because I want to work things out with my x-boyfriend. should I tell my x-boyfriend about the other guy or should I not tell him? Advice
If you still love your ex then there's no choice. The last thing you should ever do to any guy is date him when you are not ready to date. That is not fair at all!

If you have feelings for your ex, see if it can be worked out. You must put 100% of your efforts into that task for it to really work. Only when you have finally decided that it really will NOT work for your ex - and have gone through rebound and a breakup period - should you even begin to think about dating someone else. Otherwise you are just using them, which isn't fair.

-- from Jenn
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