i wanna know what to do!but i think i wrote too much....
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
yeah i looked for an hour and the question aint here.i could write for ages,but ill try to shorten it up.it probly wont make much sense,sorry.
ive been in love with this girl for over two years now and im pretty sure she has loved me back all along.in fact i know she did.we went out at first for a long time.but we broke up.last time,the relationship was better,we just broke up cuz something really bad happened to her.alot of bad stuff has happened to her.yet shes still the sweetest girl youl ever meet.....
all her other boyfriends were abusive and stuff like that. she wont tell me who they are cuz she thinks i will hurt them(wich i would kill them,not joking)after we broke up,she tried to commit scuicide because of it.shes promised to never do it again.it took awhile,but we got back together and im soo happy now.shes adorable.....
its just she isnt happy.she thinks that shes not good enough for me,and that she doesnt deserve me.she thinks im gonna leave her for someone better or prettier.i tell her that there isnt anyone better.shes the only one i want.but she doesnt beleive me.but i think shes beautiful.
she also thinks i am just using her.wich she told me,and i havent slept since.i told her that shes perfect i love everything about her,and i would never do that to her. or leave her for anything.ive been telling her this forver!but she doesnt listen.some of her friends say its because shes insecure.i kind of agree,shes had bad relationships.
i try to be good to her,ive never done anything rude to her,gotten mad,yelled,fought,hit,or tried to do anything she didnt want to do.why doesnt she beleive me?how do i show her,that i love her,trust her,im not gonna leave her,and arent using her???im afrad shel leave me again.
im also a little insecure about her breaking up with me cuz she done it 6 times. but 5 of them were just for like an hour cuz my friends were messimg with our reletionship.but i told them id seriosly hurt them,if it happened again.so they stopped.i hope you can help me,cuz im to worried to sleep.you have any advice?
sorry for writing so much,and taking up your time.sir or mam.most of it was probly nonsense you didnt need to hear...i just try to make you understand how i feel about this girl.shes perfect to me.i dont wanna lose her.thank you so much,for your help,if you can.
Your girlfriend is probably depressed and needs professional treatment.
She should find a licensed therapist to help her with her problems and she will probably need to ask her parents to arrange it for her.
You can do very little since you are too close to the situation and also you are not trained to deal with depression.
If she says she is suicidal again, please tell her parents right away.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com