He Broke Up Via Email

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I really love my b/f we were together for 3 months...I mean everything was going great....we werent having any problems....

then he sends me a email sayin that i deserve someone better and that he just dont want a gf right now.....i mean i know he hasn't met anyone else he is always home and online.....but his truck is messed up also....I just would really like to know the real reason why he broke up w/ me....

for my birthday he got me a diamond necklace....but he used his moms credit card....and she would just now be getting the bill....do u think that could be a reason? I mean him not wantin a gf just dont seem like the real reason....

it seems like there is something he is hiding.....and he still says he loves me and that his feelings for me haven't changed.....so whats the deal?

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Wow, a bunch of strange things are going on. First off, he shouldn't be buying you presents with other peoples' money. Love isn't about gifts - especially gifts they stole money to buy!! Next, breaking up via email is wrong, wrong, wrong. You should ALWAYS talk with someone face to face when you break up with them. The relationship deserves that much respect. If you respected them enough to date them, you better respect them enough to break up with them in person.

It seems like a bunch of things in the way this guy dealt with the relationship were strange - so maybe it's just as strange that he meandered away without actually giving a reason why. Maybe something was bothering him and he didn't feel like talking about it. You deserve to be told the truth, and to be told that in person.

I would go over there sometime you know the mom will be around too. That way you can see how she treats you, get a sense if it had to do with his theft of her money and then ask him to his face how he feels about things. Don't let him hedge his way out of it. You deserve to really know the truth.

-- from Jenn
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