I like my friend's ex
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
WELL I LIKE THIS GIRL AND SHES MY FRIENDS EX AND I HELLA LIKE HER BUT HER EX IS TRIEN TO GET BACK WITH HER BUT SHE REALLY LIKES ME AND ALL MY FREINDS ARE TELLIN ME TO KICK HIS A-- AND IM AFRAID IF I DO THAN SHELL THINK THAT IM A BULLY AND I REALLY LIKE HER
I KNOW IM TO YOUNG FOR LOVE BUT IM ALWAYS THINKIN OF HER LIKE TWO NIGHTS AGO I SAW A FALLING STAR WHEN I WAS ON THE PHONE WITH HER AND SHE ASKED ME WHAT MY WISH WAS AND I TOLD HER IT WAS FOR US TO GET TOGETHER
I KNOW THAT MAY NOT BE LOVE BUT IT CLOSE SO WHAT SHOULD I DO?
First, you don't go around beating up people. That would be insulting to her. That would be saying that she can't take care of herself and that the only way she can be safe is if every guy that likes her is harmed. That you don't trust her. All relationships are based on trust, so that is the LAST message you want to be spreading around.
Show her you can be her friend, that she can trust you, believe in you, talk with you, listen to you. That is the most important thing in every relationship. When she sees that, and is ready to date, she'll let you know.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com