Am i still in love?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
it is almost a novel sorry..
well 5 years ago i loved this girl and told my parents about and from the moment they new fights started between me and my family cuz they don't want the girl..
after 3 years i engaged her without my parents acceptance... and it resulted to break my relationship with my family. and my dad kicked me out of the house without allowing me to take my money nor my clothes in the house...
i had to live with her and her family..
now we are about to get married on 07/07/07 and everything was going perfectly till 14/06/07....
an x-girl of mine got married
this x was a girl that i really didn't have a real relation with her sine i used to meet her once every year and i had a crush and i loved her but never told, except my current fiance.
since she got married i can't stop thinking of my x and her life and started thinking of what would have happened if i had married my x and lived happily ever after. it has been a week andtill now i am thinking if her all the time.
i dn't know why nor how it cae nor what to do to stop her.
i cant even say what r my feelings now and to whom are they.
i reallyneed help
thanx alot and sorry for the long novell
You are probably nervous about your marriage.
Your mind is focussing on the ex as a way of not thinking of your marriage.
You should discuss this with your fiance and see what she thinks.
Be careful though because it might break off your wedding.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com