Does he like me or like-like me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I like a friend of a friend. I get the feeling he likes me. He stares at me when I'm not looking. He gets all shy and nervous around me. He has been with quite a few people in the past and even his friend says he has never seen him act they way he acts around me around anyone else. He even told me the other day that he hasn't felt like this since he was about 10 and it was like he had never been with a girl before and he didn't know what to do. But his friend says that he does want to kiss me but he doesn't want anything more. He doesn't want things to be weird between us if something happens and things turn bad between us because we still have to see each other. What should I do? Should I just give it time and see where it goes? Instinct is telling me he really likes me but is just being careful. I don't know how to tell him I like him and to see if he feels the same way...
You know he likes you so it's up to you to let him know you like him.
You could tell him directly "I am developing feelings for you" and see what he says. Or, you could have your common friend drop him the hint and find out what he says.
You should have your answer pretty soon.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com