Does he love me or use me?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ive known this guy for about 6 months n really like him alot. he asked me to start seeing him but not go out, just to see how things go. i didnt really understand that but i agreed. after that he is still the same towards me like were just frends but the only difrence is the "benifits" but its rearly we do. he sees me three times a wk if im lucky.. is he using me or takin things slow?? Advice
You are his friend with benefits.

That's what he is treating you like. Sees you three times a week, seems like a friend relationship.

If you are hoping your relationship will get closer, have a gentle talk with him and ask him what he sees in the future between you.

Good luck! George

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