Does he love me or use me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ive known this guy for about 6 months n really like him alot. he asked me to start seeing him but not go out, just to see how things go. i didnt really understand that but i agreed. after that he is still the same towards me like were just frends but the only difrence is the "benifits" but its rearly we do. he sees me three times a wk if im lucky.. is he using me or takin things slow??
You are his friend with benefits.
That's what he is treating you like. Sees you three times a week, seems like a friend relationship.
If you are hoping your relationship will get closer, have a gentle talk with him and ask him what he sees in the future between you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com