Should I make out with him or not?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 months. We have kissed multiple times, but not open mouthed. I am 13 and he will be 14 in august. I REALLY want to make out when I am at home, alone, but when my friends are like, "Yeah, make out." or "No, you are too younge." it gets confusing. Then I get nervious and i chicken out. He understands that I don't want to so he doesn't push me, but he REALLY wants to. He has had more relationships than I have aswell. I am afraid if I keep him waiting too long, he might break up with me. I'm not even sure how to "make out". What if I mess up? Advice
Explain to him how you feel.

Tell him you are shy and afraid you will mess up.

Ask him to go very slow and teach you how to make out.

If you feel uncomfortable at any point just tell him and ask him to stop.

In life, conversation is what makes things go smoother. Be sure to always communicate.

Good luck! George

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