How do i overcome this nervousness?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Theres a girl im really really into, and shes amazing gorgeous and everything id ever look for in a girl. Im a shy person, but usually dont find it too hard to talk to people i want to. But when im around this girl, i fight for things to say and it almost seems like i have to break the ice over and over again. and when i do say something, alot of times i feel really dumb for asking it, and it never really goes anywhere because she simply doesnt give an answer that i can build upon. at first i thought she was probably shy too, but then i noticed she was alot more open to more outgoing people and seemed alot more talkative to them. how do i get her to open up to me?
First, please don't ask more than one question per week.
As far as shyness... this is a battle you win or lose daily in your personal interactions. If you are very shy, it can ruin your life. At your age you should be past shyness. My suggestion is that you see a licensed psychologist who can help you with your problem.
Other than that, just fight as hard as you can, ever day to overcome it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com