Married Older Man/Married Younger(much) FemaleVisitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am a 28 y/o married female. I took on a new job about 6 months ago, and found my boss to truley be a Knight in shinning armour, he however is also married, and is also 55 years old. the age difference alone is huge i know, but i do not see the age in our relationship, neither he nor i have had sexual relations yet, but we have Kissed numerouse times, my husband and i have had a very rough marriage, and we do not comunicate well, and my knight in shiny armour and his wife have been married for 35 years, he has sons older then myself, but yet we both feel so much for eachoter, but we both have made it very clear that this thing between us is to remaine just that a thing, noithing that is going to go anywhere but between he and i, and divorce for him is not a option, we have fallin in love, and i feel badly about it, and its just a mater of time before our kissing becomes more, i am unsure as to what to do? please help ps was unsure were to put this question
One consideration you didn't mention is that you both might lose your jobs. This would be particularly tough on him at his age.
You have your age difference and an agreement not to break up your marriages, but other than that this is a fairly run of the mill affair. One of your partners will find out, or one or both of you will decide you want a divorce, or one of you may finally want out of the affair.
Nothing good will come of this... if you do eventually have sex, that may prove to be unsatisfactory. You haven't even known each other very long... this is the honeymoon period, so keep that in mind.
Bottom line, my advice is to get this out of your systems as soon as possible and go back to your accustomed lives.
Good lucck! George
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