Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my ex girlfriend's friend have become very great friends even after me and my ex broke up, we talk on the phone alot more then an ex boyfriend is suppose to talk to his ex girlfriends friend, but anyways for awhile now me and my ex's friend have become very close, we've told each other how we felt, we both admited that we liked each other alot, and care for each other, and when we speak on the phone we both being to flirt almost like a couple, and while on the phone i can tell she is sexually attracted to me and that she is nervous to be alone with me because what she may do, and that she is my ex's good friend, the question i have is, should we continue to talk like we are, or just leave it alone because she is my ex's good friend?
Yes, this is a tough situation.
The thing to do is to talk with your ex and ask her what her advice is about her best friend. Ask if she is a good person because you have become interested in here and, in fact, are talking together now.
If your ex is burnt up by this then you can tell her girl friend and between the two of you decide what to do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com