whats his deal?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
theres a guy who i like and i dont know how to tell if he likes me too! we talk on the phone everyday for hours, we spend as much time together as possible, his always saying he wants to take me places and whenever i agree he takes me and pays for me, he always stares at me and if i look him in the eye he maintains the eye contact and smiles like his thinking "what are you thinking about?", he drives me places and picks me up if i need a lift home, he always makes it so we are alone together and sits really close and then if my family walk into the room he backs off me and stops touching me, his friends all tease him and ask if his made a move on me yet.. BUT we have hooked up and acts like it never happened and if i bring it up he blames me! his really private and shy and i know i am the only girl he hangs out with but i just dont understand him, every other guy i have known has been very forward in telling me how much they like me! he gets really jealous if i look at other boys or talk about other boys too. whats his deal?
This is a good chance to have a gentle deep conversation with him.
Tell him what you told me and ask him how he feels about your concerns. You are both old enough to sustain an adult conversation to establish what your relationship really is.
If he can't explain it, he may be too immature for you. You decide.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com