I believe i am jealous.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ok, so ive been seeing this girl which is my 2nd love and i am her first for 19 months on and off..she has a problem with commitment and always gets scared and runs off and we dont talk for a month or so..then we randomly send a text and we start talking about and lust and love set in again and the cycle starts again..well she is a flirtaious girl and even more when she has been drinking. so yeah..the first time we were together a guy which was her best friend was obsessed with her..always called her always had to hear from her and if he didnt he would flip out. and she still had feelings for him..i put up with this for 5 months and then she left..and then she came back 3 months later..and we started talking..and about a month or 2 after that she started talking to another guy while we were together..and leaves me for him..and this cycle repeats..but the last time she leaves me..she sleeps with 3 new guys..and now comes back saying she has kissed 32 guys and and slept with 3 new people..and had a 3some and shit..and she always goes out with all these guys and drinks..but she swears she loves me and would never cheat on me..and that she has changed and will never leave..but 4 out of 7 days she is with someone else..her best friend is a guy..and most of her friends are guys..and she admits most of them like her..and she goes out and drinks with them and smokes with them WHICH ANNOYS ME. and i am like what the hell..and she says i am stupid to think anything is gonna happen..and all these guys text and call her all the, non stop..and she is on the phone and checks her phone every 5 minutes..ok i believe that is enough..do i have a right to be jealous?
You have the right to be way off the jealousy chart!
She is treating you like a piece of dirt and if you like it then fine. But if you are like most people you should give her a quick kick in the derriere and tell her to get lost and you don't want to ever see her again.
You have put up with enough and should call it quits now.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com