He's not what he seems to be anymore...

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Ok heres the thing, I like this lad for like a while now and he knows that. The only time we talked is on MSN (Messenger thing) and I'm very happy to talk to him. But lately he has been mean to me for no reason and I thought it was a one off, but then this evening he took it too far cause I was bullied by this girl at my school because I was Bi and I was very upset about it

He was frustrated with me and kept saying to me on MSN that being bothered by that being bothered by that is stupid. He kept saying stuff that really really hurted me like:

"Been bothered about people teasing you is stupid"

"How hard is it to tell a teacher or get your parents to write a letter?"

"Deal with it"

"you people are so Lame"

"you let some bloody words upset you, I mean wtf"

He even said that My Parents was sh*t and everything and we just started arguing. He doesn't care if he understands me or not and at the least resort he told me to Get the f*ck out.

I was hurt, so very hurt that I was crying, eating too much, listening to metal... I was shaking and everything. I don't even think he actually cares for me. We have been MSN friends for a long time and I got a feeling that all he said to be during our friendship was a lie. I just can't believe I fell for a Cruel sick perverted git... What do I do? Did I make a Mistake? Was it my fault the whole thing began? I need help...

RomanceClass.com Advice
The guy is an obvious jerk and you should forget him.

He is miserably mean and why bother with him any more?

It wasn't your fault at all, it is his fault.

Good luck! George

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