I'm Jealous over things she said she wouldn't do
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been cheated on long time ago that hurt me really bad. I just started dating this girl. I get jealous if a guys hits on her or she even talks to a guy. She is always telling me that she would not cheat on me. She also goes to parties and drinks all the time. I am always thinking that something is going to happen with someone else. She always tells me that nothing is going to happen cause she likes me. I think I feel this way because of things that happened in my past but don't know how to fix it. It is pushing her away and I don't want to do that. How do I stop getting jealous about these little things and when she is just being nice.
You can fight jealousy by treating it as an enemy.
Whenever it rears its ugly head, tell it to go away and leave you along. Say that your gf loves you and wouldn't hurt you. Do this 100 times and eventually the bad feelings will give up trying to bug you.
Other than that you seem to have a good handle on the situation. Congrats.
See also our webpage on jealousy at:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com