i kicked him out , now i want him back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok i was living with this guy for 8 months i have a five year old son (not his) and things were great we got along we never fought, i mean we disagreed but never fought. so about a month ago things got really sticky and were not right he was not the same person he stoped touching me and stoped coming home if he went out and well he basically did not even see meif i was in the room. now i fell in love with this man and he told me that he loved me to what changed i do not know. anyhow i had had it i was iskc of him going out and not coming home and he would not tell me what was wrong and well i kicked him out i was angry and upset and hurt all at the sametime and i was not thinking i just did and now i regret it. i have talked to him once since we split and he said that i scared the hell out of him by talking about babies i did not mean to scare him but he never told me that it bothered him so how was i to know. he told me i was the best thing that had ever happened to him and the he did not deserve me and that i was to good for him all that junk and well now here i am alone. i have tried to call him and talked to him but wheni call his frend who is with him all the time he tells me he dose not know were he is. i want this man back and i do not know how to do it i love him and this sucks!! i gave him all his stuff and i even asked his freind to ask kevin to call me and he did not call what do i do to fix this i want to fix this, i felt that he was the one and i mean if i was the best thing that ever happened to him why is he just letting go so easy?
Write him a letter and explain how you feel.
Apologize for throwing him out and say that you didn't realize talking about babies would freak him out. Tell him how you feel about more babies.
Ask him to join you for a nice dinner just you two.
If that works out, invite him over for his favorite home-cooked meal.
It will not be easy to do all this since he is resisting all the way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com