I don't know what to do? part 2
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well I ask for your advice and you said to me that there are going to be 100 of guys in the military move on...
Well that is wat I was doing but I went to a friends party and he was there and we ended up talking and he was telling how much he miss me and that he never loved someone like he love me he also told me that he will stay local of we move in together that he wanted to marry me.. I don't know wat to do I love him.. but I dont know if I want to stop everything I am doing to continue this relationship.. I dont know wat to do?
If it's meant to be it will happen.
Don't take his word given at a friend's party where you were both probably high. Let things flow and see what develops. He is probably nervous about what will happen to him and is seeking you as a rock to tie his anchor to.
You also are feeling at loose ends because you are going into the unknown (the military). It would be easier if you had someone waiting on you.
But, I still feel hesitant about suggesting that you and he get together. The odds are pretty high that it won't turn out well. You two need to spend much more time together before making a commitment.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com